English: Chain leash

Suppose I own two dogs, Rover and Fido. Rover needs a leash every time we go for a walk. Without it, he runs all over the neighborhood, puts himself in constant danger, and makes himself a nuisance to neighbors. I can’t trust him.

But Fido doesn’t need a leash. He happily sniffs and explores, but stays right with me no more than a few feet away. While Rover needs an external means to obey, which really isn’t obedience at all, Fido is a picture of the transforming walk with Jesus.

God wants to trust us to rule and serve with Him the way he designed us to. He doesn’t want rules or external means to control us; He wants us to control ourselves. Scripture speaks of gaining self-control and Christ-like character through practice with Jesus.

For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (2Pet. 1:5-8)

Leash Mentality

When Jesus teaches “don’t swear,” but to simply let your Yes be yes and No be no , he’s addressing internal self-control, good judgment, and freedom versus external swearing, insistence, or proving good behavior.

For example, if I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, so help me God, but I would lie if not for the oath, I’m already a liar regardless how I perform on the witness stand. My oath hasn’t touched my character even if God makes me tell the truth. Lying under oath is common because swearing is no guarantee the truth will be told. While we’re required to swear in court, to turn it into an entire life-style is like living on a leash.

Wash the inside of the cup, and the outside gets clean in the process. But many people, like Rover, believe that the more legalistic we are, the more submissive and proof of obedience it is, and the better God likes it. Some will say, “Jesus was good on the inside, but we can never be. We need those leashes.”

This is only partially true; and it robs us of hope. The idea that we’ll never be good  in this life is a terrible conflict with God’s refinement and redemption process. Jesus’ plan aims to have little need for leashes compelling us to obey. Scripture calls it freedom in Christ.


The expression “Christ living in you” means God’s Law of good will living in you as richly as it lives in Jesus. “Just as He who called you is holy, so you also be holy in all you do.” (1Pet.1:15) Love God with all your heart, mind, strength, and soul; and love your neighbor as yourself. While we usually hear that God’s Law is the standard we’ll never measure up to, it’s right where Jesus leads us.

Like a steady sunrise, the day is coming when mankind, under the Son’s guidance, will have finally written it in the heart, and “thou shall not” won’t be necessary at all. The Ten Commandments aren’t just rules; they’re a prophecy of when people really shall not lie, covet, worship false images, or kill—not in a misty afterlife, but in lives lived on the physical Earth in physical bodies, now as well as in the ages to come. This is the promise in Christ that Paul speaks of in Eph. 3:6.

You and I aren’t chess pieces that God moves around on the board of life. We can and should develop our own good judgment, will, and discernment. In those times when God seems far away and silent, He hasn’t abandoned you; He’s giving you an opportunity to practice something you’ve learned—a trial. Or, as I like to call it, a try-al.

Rather than dictate our every move, God often backs off and stands us on our own two feet. We shouldn’t wonder, “What did I do wrong?” or try to confess some unknown lack of faith (as many churches mistakenly teach). Neither has God let us down or failed in His promise. At those times, we’re simply off-leash. And God is still nearby. This builds both faith and character. Instead of feeling discouraged, we should see it as a fabulous sign of growth and trustworthiness!

The stronger we become on the inside like Jesus, the less we need rules on the outside. God’s Law will never go away, it’ll just be internalized rather than etched in stone. The true test of Christ-like formation is whether we can increasingly think and react the way Jesus did without being prompted and without external means to compel us. Then God can unleash us to rule and serve in good will, trusting us to not create the disasters we do today.